Alternative help?

This has been on my mind for the LONGEST time EVERRRR!!! I wanna dress alternately so so so so sooooo badly, but I don’t like standing out too much. Any tips on how to dress SUBTLETY alternately?? I already enjoy a lot of alt music, but I wanna look the part too. QUICKKK!! I GO BACK TO SXHOOL SHOPPING SOOOOOONNN (P.S. I’m black, and I don’t like straightening my hair a lot, so please don’t tell me to do that.) (P S S S SSSS I love how nice people are on this website !!)