being non-binary vs Androgyny

context On How this topic even came in2 my Mind ;

i Have two IRL friends who i Basically Hang Out with  everyday . one of them is enby ,jyust Like me ! the Other is a cishet dud Who is relatively New 2 the concept of being Non binary . But he Does Try 2 refer 2 us correctly ( gender neutral terms & they/them pronouns )

But from my Observation; he mostly refers 2 Me correctly , i assume because i put in Effort in2 Looking androgynous, i guess .. even though i Don t  Think i Look that much so . but in comparism 2 my other friend , they R very heavily feminine Leaning . That is No Problem of course . But because of that our friend constantly Finds it difficult 2 See them as Non binary . Misgendering them consistently . Not On Purpose of course , but its Obvious he has 2 really Push 2 reconstruct His mindset because of his views  taught  Growing up 

i Know this is Lowkey just a Nothing burger of a blog post ,But ime just thinking Thoughts :-P.  it jyust Makes Me Sad How 2 the General Society , that it is Expected from enbys 2 Look Androgynous , when we do Not At All Owe any1 that . Not only enbys #tbh . Literally Any1 Else  Do Not Neither, Transgender Women can dress as masculine as they Wish . and it Makes me upset that people See Less of them if They Do so . i Just Hope more n More people Realise this ...

#NBsDoNotOweYouAndrogyny !