BYI/DNI list. (Always subject to changes.)

Before you interact/BYI;

I’m 17. I will add older people as long as you aren’t weird, but no one under 15 or above 25.

I likely won’t add you if you don’t have a listed age somewhere.

I also won’t add you if you have zero information on your profile.

I’m autistic; I don’t need tone-tags but I’ll use them if you want them and sometimes I can be rude without meaning to.

I make a lot of posts about sexual/political/other things. Like a lot of sexual/political topics. And often many posts about mental health related things/anything adjacent.

Despite all the sex and stuff I talk and joke about, I’m aromantic and asexual (repulsed on both.) I don’t do dating stuff, if that’s what your in for then leave.

Do not interact/DNI;

If you align with far right, conservative, TERF, or hateful beliefs. Basic stuff, you know this already I’d hope.

If you have some kind of profile that is a barely concealed kink. I have nothing against kink but adding someone who is named ‘patheticpuppy’ or something weirds me out. (I’m talking from experience.)

If you make rape jokes or something similar in a not coping humor type of way.

If you spam messages. I’m fine with casual conversation and chatting, but I hate feeling suffocated and constantly forced to continue a conversation.