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I stopped texting my friends, they stopped texting me, I get a message like once every two months directly to me from a friend (except for one friend we do message sometimes) at first I thought it sucked that they didn't like me much but then I realized that I much prefer being without them than with them, I avoid them at breaks and I never message first anymore (except for to that one friend) I honestly enjoy being alone now and I am just waiting to meet new people yk, BC these 'friends' are mostly predetermined childhood friends, and I do still talk at school but I just can't relate to most of them anymore. Basically what I am trying to say is that friends matter it's nice to have people around but I think it's also good to seperate your self every once and a while too! But go thru your life however feels best for you, you don't have to listen to online strangerss BC I don't know you, maybe the way I think isn't right for you, so just do what you want with your life at this moment I am sure it will work out!

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I've been going through the same kind of, I changed schools a bit ago and only 1 friend talks to me to hangout or whatever. The others? I'm the one that messages them first, it suckss!!!

I don't feel like ur overreacting but maybe try talking to them abt how you've been feeling yk? ૮(˶ㅠ︿ㅠ)ა

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sometimes in life depending on situation and how much you analyzed it and came to conclusions, sometimes, you just have to realize that some "friendships" are just temporary, especially in school 

at a certain age, everyone is for themselves and their occupations

friends you laughed all day with and hang out with are fading away more and more, now a simple smile feels forced

depending on the situation again, they can leave you behind because they are done with what they needed from you at a certain point in their life.

it's a long story trust me and maybe you know it but just saying because I'm facing kind of similar stuff in my life too right now



This comment is so sweet, you're a amazing writer and explained this so well. Im sorry you're going through something similar to this, but its good to remember it will get better and that theres always better people out there.

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