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(edited) Report I used to kinda act the way he does because I was afraid that speaking my discomfort would instigate arguments, and it honestly did but that was just my own situation lol I think the most simple answer is just make him feel as safe as possible. reassure him as many times as he needs that his feelings won't be judged. it may take time, but showing patience will help a long way. trust really is key. perhaps you can ask him to give a set of boundaries so you can prevent upsetting him in the future otherwise if things persist like this, it could cause resentment from both sides and by then you'd probably be better off apart |
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sometimes its best to just leave it be yk |
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Sigh I know and i have countless times given him reassurance and told him its okay. We talked about our boundaries first thing when we got together and when we found there were others to set we would talk about it immediately when we could like the last time we talked about him getting quiet and me being mean so I thought the problem would be fixed but it really didn't and like idk I think like be fr were grown do we rlly need to be told multiple times? And I wouldn't want to break up and ik he wouldn't either.
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