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1 hour ago (edited) Report 👍

first of all i am really sorry that happened to you and you definitely get to feel upset. What she did sucked. It doesnt matter that you werent dating him, you liked him and i assume she knew that. It might sound harsh because i do understand that shes your friend and all that. But she did lie to you when she said he had a girlfriend and then was unnecessarily mean when you asked about it. His behaviour also kinda sucks ngl...but anyway

i know its hard but in my personal experience, its best to get some space, do you have some other friends you can hang out with? or maybe a hobby you like doing? its good to get your mind off it! i do not know your friend but it does seem kind off deliberate and she probably wants to rub it in your face / get a reaction, so its best to not give her that. 

I fell out with my bff last year and one thing that helped me get some space was writing down what happened and how i felt. Whenever i was tempted to reach out again, i reread it and decided if it was worth it or not. 

At the end of the day its your life and you shouldnt have people in it that make you feel bad or upset. You are probably young and there will be so many new friends in your future. 

Of course you can also try talking to her but set some clear boundaries for yourself, maybe write them down as well and when she crosses them, be strict! You do not have tu run after someone that isnt worth it. Maybe its also just a phase, a break or some space dont have to be permanent. Be kind to yourself and your feelings!

Take care and i wish you the best summer ever!

1 hour ago (edited) Report 👍 2

Girl that isn't no friend wowwwwww. Imma keep it a buck, block her, block him, and move on from them both. People like that are best kept hellllla away. No person, ever, who respects you would do shit like that. I am so sorry that happened, but honestly, she doesn't give a shit about your feelings and that is horrible and undeserved and again I am sorry that happened. I wouldn't even talk to her about it, what is there to talk about? She is definitely not a good friend nor a good person:/

1 hour ago (edited) Report 👍 2

that's a terrible thing to do!! to do that to your friend over a BOY? ew!! that's not friend behavior at all, and super mean of her to do that and go no-contact suddenly :(( i honestly would personally never talk to her again, but if you wanna preserve the friendship, you should talk to her about how you feel and ask her why she would lie like that. regardless, don't trust her at all moving forward. good luck!!