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you should be proud of yourself for sticking to that boundary. batting w depression while dealing with toxic ppl.. that must’ve been exhausting. so glad you’re out of there!! Godspeed!!

I don't wish this on anyone. And this is just my sister in law. Wait till you hear what I have to say about the stuff her brother and his wife did too. She kind of left us alone but he continues to throw jabs at us. I'm nice to a point, I no longer go above and beyond for people. I meet them where they meet me. All being nice did to me was get me walked all over.

I hope I get over it one day too because as an over thinker it sucks constantly thinking about these things.

Well, that's rough....

I hope you'll get over it someday and swiftly recover from it.

But yeah hopefully your Brother-In-Law is quite far away from where you live and just ignore them and block them and cut them off as much as you could so you could no longer hear anything about them for your peace of mind.

And I wish all the best for you and your family.

Actually my sister in law and her husband are an hour away from here and my other brother in law lives in the same town and a couple blocks away. And his step daughter and mine go to the same school so they like to bother me there too. 

But one day I want to be able to think he doesn't exist or is just a stranger.

"But one day I want to be able to think he doesn't exist or is just a stranger."

Hm, Hopefully that helps..... But then I hope you guys could be able to move to another place for a peace of mind.

But yeah hopefully what you said, would help you to somehow have a peace of mind.

Your Brother-In-Law sounds pretty immature and not really worth any time and energy for you to spend on.

So yeah maybe just blocking him off in your mind and just focusing on something else and acting like he doesn't exist and just a random stranger might somehow help.

I do too. I waish we could leave but we've been here so long and have a house to pay off. I try and let bygones be byones but there's times I think about the stuff that changed me into another person and I get angry all over again. Or I see him out in public and I get mad again, but I'm able to control it better than I used to. They wanted my reaction so they would provoke me. Now I stay quiet and just walk away, my self control is getting better as the years go by. This blog was mainly about my sister in law and her husband. The next one will focus on this brother in law that lives in the same town and his wife and what they did.