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I can understand socialising is hard, it is for me too. The core point in dating is if you view women also as humans not as a thing you own and willing to unlearn some things you were socialised with. Also respect if somone has no interest in dating. I see so many (incel-)guys on the internet, who don't have any respect and assume just because they were nice in the beginning, that the counterpart owns them a relationship. They do not. I don't go against anyones religious belives, but please be aware on which side of christianity you go. If you're more on a fundamentalist side, please also be aware that that might scare away some women, because what I saw from these type of christs, they are mostly the intolerantest ones and are not respectful agains anyone. Also maybe try to go outside to more quieter spaces, like libraries. Or get yourself good noice cancelling phones and try to sit outside in a park. Also if you don't love yourself, which is hard when you got bullied for a long time, you have it harder to find a relationship. Maybe therapy in that way could help, with finding your inner peace and maybe it can also help with how to socialise. The internet is cool af, but try to live outside of it too. Good luck in university, maybe there are also some nd folks you can try to connect? It's more acceptal between ND folks to trauma dump to form a friendship than with the 'normal' people. Best wishes, Cel |
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