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i had some “weird” expectations, but i think being employed and doesn’t “bed-rot” are good ones. since i have become unemployed, and bed rot most days, i don’t really understand why someone who does the same would want to chase the productive, and vice versa. i also think, if you have a car, the other person should as well -or at the very least, a license. as a car haver, it very easily starts to feel like i’m the chauffeur, and it gets exhausting -even though i like to drive. i feel more strange for wanting someone on the same “level” as me, as in, if i’ve had one relationship, i don’t want someone who’shad more than that. though i don’t think it’s that absurd, most others do.

-i also don’t care too much for those who are “overly nice” or are interested in being popular. having a large following online feels kind of narcissistic, just like people who constantly wear a smile and insist on talking to everyone or making their presence known by “good gestures”. i guess the underlying expectation is someone who is sincere and humble. 

-annnd if someone doesn’t know how to cross the road. including if someone lacks awareness of their surroundings. walking across the street or areas where cars will be with headphones on, staring at a phone, with no light while it’s dark, or just moving slow and having no courtesy will always irk me. 

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I guess maybe one of my 'weird' requirements is that I can't date a cis person... Whoever my s/o is has to be under the trans umbrella. Idk if that's weird but everything else I don't really gaf about, the employed thing is understandable though honestly.