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I think that as someone who's probably on the asexual spectrum I could give my two cents: Firstly, yeah that gal was mean and unfunny. Also painfully heteronormative. Maybe she's secretly thinking about becoming the boyfriend (or probably girlfriend) in question since this questionable comment passed all the "Is this an okay thing to say" verifications in her brain. Secondly: I never understood why the big reproduction deed has to be all everyone talks about. I was so confused when I entered 5th grade after 2 years of social withdrawal from my class, who have since then known every fucking (pun intended) reference related to horney acts at the age of 9-10 while my ass was sitting on the sofa most of the time watching cartoons about antihetoes travelling the world, teenagers stuck in a surrealistic ARG, a girl trying to never grow up to keep her child joys forever, some superhero cartoons and a show about teenagers catching videogame console creatures that misbehave as a job. All of those media, I still like them to this day, yet they don't have a singular sexual reference in them. And I was the oddball for being in2 that. So I put the biggest joy I had, my toys, in boxes and tried to mature. I still regret that. Number 3: I get the fact that intimate acts of love are something you can't talk about in public and some people feel very elated devoting themselves to it, but there's so friggin much more to life. Much later in my life (id say like 15? Something round that), I felt increasingly like there's something wrong with me for being repulsed by it so I tried *my hand* at it and I still didn't get the deal. So I kept at it for a few days till I found it a little hard to cease because it made me feel like I'm normal. Though I stopped and nowdays that almost everything I do has som1 think it's oh so unusual so I gave up trying to fit in that and obviously I feel better. And of course I can't even concieve an imagination of someone lending me a helping hand with this activity. (I'm trying to avoid using the word sex because it's just too boring and makes this comment feel shallow soz) |