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As a married woman, I would be absolutely disgusted if my husband hid stuff like that from me, and I probably would divorce him right then and there. The fact that you felt the urge to check your boyfriend's phone should be a red flag by itself. You had a gut feeling that something was not right and unfortunately was correct. Your boyfriend clearly has a problem, like @Dookie mentioned, and the fact that he is unwilling to stop shows you his true priorities. He sees women as objects and has no desire to take the relationship seriously. You must give him an ultimatum where he quits engaging with that kind of content all together, or the relationship is over. You cannot keep giving him chances that he frankly does not deserve. |
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He must have some sort of porn addiction or somethin |
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Well I did give him that ultimatum when I first found everything on his phone but the ultimatum was more on the p*rn side of things rather than just looking at girls occasionally on social media. My problem is I find it extremely hard to leave people when I want to and/or should. The amount of times i've stayed with someone after they have done much worse than this is too many to count so I kind of just feel like i'm stuck in a relationship where I feel unwanted, not in the way he doesn't want me but more in the way he wants someone that he'll only see on social media a little more than me if that makes sense. We also have constant arguments just due to miscommunication and misunderstandings, I just think we're not right for each other because we just don't seem to get each other. Like as much as I want the relationship to work out i'm worried it just won't.
by Cinnamon_pigeon; ; Report
You absolutely deserve better and are right when you say that you are not right for each other. He sounds like such a bottom of the barrel POS and kind of reminds me of a past relationship of my own. I used to date a guy who had a second Twitter account solely for the purpose of looking at sexualized fan art of fictional characters. Half were underage. Sure, they were not real people, but the fact that he purposely would do this and proudly show it off to me was so gross looking back on it. I should have broken up with him right then but didn't and was so happy when I finally left him. The fact that you have gone through so much worse in previous relations breaks my heart because you seem like such a good-hearted girl who got stuck with the wrong people. I promise that not every guy is like this, and since you are so young, you have so much time to find the right person. If you would like to chat more, please feel free to message me! I'm happy to listen.
by lulu.mp3; ; Report