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i got a notification that someone in this blog (JesterBoy) replied back to me, but i can’t reply back because they blocked me. very totally open-minded… and i swear i wasn’t even trolling or trying to be mean. like you can’t just block someone because you disagree with them, that’s so immature.

well, the definition of trans used to be someone getting surgeries and hormones (basically SRS) in order to relief themselves of gender dysphoria. it was until tucute activists basically changed the definition and kinda just took over trans discourse. i don't think transgender is an umbrella term, an aesthetic or "outfit" that you put on just because tiktok or tumblr made it popular, and it's honestly a huge blow to the public perception of trans people. it's kinda like saying you don't have to be attracted to the same sex to be gay. so if trans doesn't mean surgically transitioning to the other gender anymore and now just means "im a woman" but looking 100% male, what is it then? if you're gonna be trans and not want people to misgender you, then transition? (but i understand that some don't have the financial ability to). you either have gender dysphoria or you don't. again, being trans is not something you put on, like a shirt. i feel like actual transgender people in the trans community who have suffered gender dysphoria feel pushed out because of this, and get called transphobic for saying what im saying. basically, a man with a beard wearing a dress isn't trans, he's a cross dresser at best (or maybe androgynous?). meanwhile, a person who wishes to medically transition to a boy/girl due to crippling gender dysphoria is a transsexual person. which one of them can actually use the restroom of their gender without a public freak out? (okay not literally a freak out, but you know what i mean, like drama), it's the one who transitioned. i would be confused if a woman who says they're a male but looks absolutely nothing like one entered the men's restroom. and honestly tucutes are just chronically online tiktok kids with no hobbies trying to be part of a minority group (for "oppression points" perhaps?). and don't get me started on those same kids who "self diagnose" and pretend to have ADHD, OCD, autism, etc. i have actual OCD, it fucking sucks! but it's thankfully less worse than when i was younger, and it's absolutely not an aesthetic or some quirky edgy trend that you can just slap on your bio. it's the same thing with this "trans trend", some kids (and also some grown ass adults) saying they're trans (or even nonbinary) all of a sudden but aren't. 0% passing, 0% gender dysphoria. and then they get upset that someone called them a he/him, when they look nothing like a she/her (they/them is even more harder to tell). so is transracial and transage next? well i doubt it, or at least hope not. i mean if gender is supposedly a social construct (i think people mean gender roles when they say this, and i agree), then so is age and race. the same logic can apply to those two as well.

I'm a trans man without dysphoria and I don't plan on surgery, I'm perfectly fine having a feminine body, but that doesn't make me any less of a man 🤷