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4 months ago

Tbh bbz I understanddddd. since ur dealing with shit u should look around n realize that everything is 100% up 2 U. Ur friends and the ppl u surround urself with are there bc U LET THEM BE. If they don't support u in the way u would support them dw ab it. It'll be hard and it's hard leaving old friends in the past but tbh as we grow we shed the things that aren't meant 2 b here forever. I'm sorry ab lili :\ I get it if u don't rlly wanna do anything ab it bc having people u know is a comfort but at the end of the day ur in charge here. Sometimes friends will just be friend in passing and not any deeper than that. Some ppl are not always meant 2 see the complete you; the thoughts, the fears, the struggle, the pain, and that's A Okay!! Start talking to ur journal, or someone who DOES care. And getting rid of an ex makes things 100% less stressful bc u will see why things ended, and how things are brighter despite the shitty part of it. I have been thru this EXACT feeling, with the EXACT same ppl. Don't give time n energy 2 friends that won't make that same effort for u. Heal by urself, on ur own time, not WITH and FOR other ppl. Have a gn meowwwwwwzzzzz ;b

--Sincerely the online big sister who getz it

P.s. venting is always 100% ok!! Don't let anyone make u feel bad for it, but start to listen n learn who should hear and who shouldn't. Sometimes it can get 2 the wrong ears. Xoxo 

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