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Yeah same, it made it so I basically wasn't sad at all when one of my cat's died.

I think when you really really really love someone it's good to do that in moderation because if you love someone an insane amount. You can get this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Takotsubo_cardiomyopathy

So lessening that cognitive impact is probably a good idea by pre-gaming grief. If you are doing it ALL the time though and or it is getting in the way of enjoying the present moments that make you love in the first place then that isn't healthy and you gotta try to stop.