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there is a saying, no one thinks they have less time in life than a 20-year old. you are around that age so its very valid to feel like this.

girl theres a lot to uncover so lets start slowly. you wish to study something you can apply in your future job, but something you like, thats what i get. I am not sure how your programs work where u at, but cant u just .... change the school? or like the subject? and theres another question: have you looked through other programs? like not just scroll randomly on the main page — actually taking your time to see each subject in that program?

another question is: have you tried to give it some time? i see you like criminology so you didnt just choose this randomly. you might feel unmotivated cuz u are in the beginning. and since you dont have a lot of knowledge and school feels intimidating. if this is the case, how about you just make an experiment for like a week and actually put in 100% of your effort. like just romanticise it a bit yk, just like tiktok is saying

regarding the friend that didnt study — once again idk where u are in the world and how things are for you, but when i was in uni i had time to party. i did also work a bit, but my major was photography and i was working as a freelancer in this scene. you can have fun and study at the same time if you really wish for this. dont neglect school just cuz someone else in your life is doing that rn and its working for them. 

oh and ..... america is a shitshow rn, i wouldnt go there for a bit cuz the prices are too high to exist there, unless u are a nepo baby with infinite money or like ... elons kid or sumthing... 

if you still enjoy this idea, make a real plan with the worst cases possible and see if its realistic or not. but tbh if you dig a bit, america is TRASH. it just has a good marketing firm but in reality the country we were all once presented as the "the american dream, where everything becomes reality" is looong gone (like it hasnt been like this since the 50s or 60s or something like that)

hope this long ass message helped you at least 1% :,)