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I know this is the "obvious" answer but I do really feel like you should confess! But do it in a more natural way? I think you should just ease into the relationship, don't make it big or make it a huge deal. Keep it natural, keep your friendship together without it being overwhelmed by the romance. Once it's been like a bit then involve more romantic stuff! Although I don't know what I'm talking about bcs I'm a chud... But my advice is to confess and if she says yes then take it slow! If she says no then try to keep things natural to keep your friendship!

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All I can rlly say is you’ll never know what happens until you just go for it. It is scary but life’s too short y'know? It COULD make things awkward for a bit (whether you get turned down or not), but if you guys are rlly close or like having each other around or whatever the case, things could end up okay, (ofc I can’t say for sure since idk you guys but this is just coming from experience πŸ˜…). I encourage you to go for it though, and I hope if you do then things turn out well!! :D



also I feel like you should take a bit to think abt whether you want to stay friends or if you want smth more. (Ik u said u wanted a partner but it’s like, do you want to be in a relationship with THIS specific person, or do you just want the idea of a relationship, I hope that makes sense 😭)

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hey! just follow your heart,  if you keep thinking about what if, then you will never actually do it! if it doesn't work you, it will still be better than you not trying and wondering what if you had.

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I feel like you should tell her because it can be that she'll end up with someone else over time. I know how it feels because I also didn't tell my friend when I liked her and now she has a bf and everything. Sure it's cool to be friends with someone but if you really want them, and if you are sure there might be a chance, then go for it! :)