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"you don’t owe anyone a single explanation about who you are or how you define yourself." 

super true!! 

Ive never transitioned (or detransitioned) but i still relate to the process of cycling through labels to try and find the "perfect one" that described me and how i felt. I sort of thought that if i found it, then it would make me easier to understand by other people. easier to digest. In the end it sort of made me feel a worse alienation than the one i was trying to get away from in the first place, I kept deviating from what was "required" for those labels and groups, then i was off to find a new one that would surely fit me better than the last. Never happened. Never found it. I slowly realized that I don't HAVE to be understood by everybody. i don't HAVE to have an easy way to explain something thats not easily explainable. I think if someone wants to know what type of person i am, just get to know me then you'll see.