ive just realized the reason as to why I have no friends and I do this subconsciously cause usually when im with the two friends I have im usually nice and talkative but when im alone even if its me irl or online playing games I usually never entertain conversations and keep my replies quick and short and ive never realized that till now. and I feel like its to late to even try and change cause now I dont even know how to keep convos going if I dont know the person or even how to start them.
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GoldnSilver^^
Well firstly, friends you make should like you for you- short replies and all, but I can definitely understand wanting more friends, just know its never too late to try. Usually when I meet someone new to make friends with I try find something to compliment about them, dyed hair? I love your hair! Pins on their bag? Omg your pins are so cool! A shirt I like? Ahh I wish I had your style it's so cool! The important thing is that the compliment be genuine, its harder to fake and it feels nicer to the person. Then I usually ask a follow up question, how did you dye it? What fandoms are those? What's your shirts brand?, that kinda starts the conversation. If you can relate after this, do. I tried to dye my hair once, I'm/ my friend is in that fandom too, ohh I really like that brand.
Its hard to entertain conversations or make friends sometimes but if the friend is right for you eventually it will work. There's nothing wrong with you in particular, having just two friends can also show you're a great one- people just don't know how great you are yet!!
Holy yap mb hope this helps^^ (even if its kinda basic advice)
omg! yes this honestly did help cause even simple things like that I usually would just keep it to myself and never comment or ask about them I usually just stay quiet and keep it to myself but I will try this next time thank you sm!! its ok about the yap it helped!!
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