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It's been two months since i decided that i'm bi .

But i still feel like I'm not , i had a crush on a boy and on girls. But i still dont know if im bi or straight , or even aromantic , someone please help

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remember that you dont need to be attracted to men and women equally to be bisexual. like, you can be attracted to one gender more or way more. also remember that sexual and romantic attraction are two seperate things. you can be attracted to a group of people sexually but not romantically, and vice versa. But you mentioned having crushes on boys and girls, so you dont seem aromanticโ“As someone who has figured out his sexuality in the past, If I were you, I would take my time and allow myself to like anyone regardless of their gender. Maybe you need to take your time a little bit, you dont have to put a label right now as sexuality and gender are very fluent things. i hope this was helpful, have a nice day ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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check out the term berrisexual! its in the bi umbrella and means that you like girls and enbies but with occasional attraction to men



i've already heard of it . imma check it out , Bi bye

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:crazy:ย I mean, Iโ€™m bi so if u have any questions feel free to ask!! Idk if Iโ€™ll be much help tho <\3 my best piece of advice is take ur time finding yourself !ย 

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i mean if you had crushes on guys and gals i def don't think you're straight.

but you gotta figure out your feeling for yourself, we all have different ways of experiencing love and all

for now you can just go as unlabeled it's not a big deal to not really know what you are or to not ever know

this whole attraction, orientation and loving stuff can sometimes not 100% be defined by an identity, it's more of a spectrum actually and it's okay if you cannot put a name on it, don't stress abt it.