guys uh. what the FUCK do you do if you don’t know for sure if someone likes you?
there’s this guy i’m friends with. i admire him so much. he’s such a good friend to me, he makes me laugh, he supports me and helps me through hard shit… genuinely a very valuable person. we share the same values and everything. i’m very fond of him. but i worry he doesn’t feel the same.
i say this because there are days in which i think he might, and others in which im convinced he doesn’t — but i never know what’s real or not because i tend to self-sabotage all the time!
anybody going thru something similar? :’[
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neomatcha
lowkey ask a trusted 3rd party to hang out with both of you and then let you know what they think the vibe is. or just wait until he tells you (..◜ᴗ◝..)
i LOVE this tactic
by pyroteknyk; ; Report
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There are probably “safe” ways to ask without being too direct, but I honestly think that asking out right and risking awkwardness is the trade-off to getting a real and honest answer. If that’s worth it to you, then do it! I am a big fan of love so I think you should go for it anyway
thanks🥹🥹 i definitely have to be brave enough to do it but i’ll try !!
by pyroteknyk; ; Report
B4RBIE
Nah I usually just ask the person if they romantically like me so I can see if Its worth it to even develop romantic feelings for them or not. I suggest asking him so you aren't beating yourself up about it.
thank you so much :]
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she was a "gem alert" to you
he’s definitely a gem i’ll give u that
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