So why is pedophilia slowly normalizing?

Okay now before I give my opinion I have another story to share: I was out in a party with my parents, my daddy friends daughter was having a birthday party so what does this tell you it’s a kids party okay but somehow they were no kids at all and they were all adults like super weird right 

So I settled down, then went around greeting all the adults cause apparently my dad knew every one of them ugh so when I finally settled down talking to my sister about an ex classmate who stated messaging me, some guy I think in his thirties was like trying to call my attention. I ignored him then he like told my sister to call me so hesitantly I answered and he was like asking for my phone number so he can call me now mind you this was a kids birthday party, the kid is a year old and I don’t look above my age okay I’m thirteen. I refused and he kept like pressing on begging so I had to ignore you but then he started following me— grown man btw to a teenager it was pretty obvious I was a kid so I ignored him but then I don’t wanna get murdered for rejecting a guy so I got out of there as fast as I could

 And this isn’t the first time I’ve gotten hit on by older guys. When I was twelve, yes twelve some old guy kept smiling at me and asking for my number it was so gross. Even walking home from school isn’t safe like why aren’t people afraid of repercussions anymore. No shame in being a pedophile even when you’re being called out eugh