If something is small to your partner but big to you, it’s reasonable to break up. I mean, obviously I don’t mean not doing the dishes once, but like them calling women “femoids/foids” or something like that.
Severely mentally ill people should either not date or be really careful. I don’t believe that you should be dating if you aren’t receiving care or are currently recovering.
Idk how this classifies, BUT YOU SHOULD NOT BE SENDING YOUR SH TO EACH OTHER. THIS MIGHT BE THE COLDEST TAKE ON EARTH, BUT ITS SO WEIRD AND UNCOMFORTABLE TO SEND YOUR PARTNER YOUR FRESHLY CUT SELF HARM. Even if they ask to see, you don’t send it to them. This might cause a harm=attention loop and make you cause irreversible damage to your body as well as fucking up your mind.
Dating someone different from you is good! It can give you new perspectives and you can see other opinions on things
If you don’t wanna be with your long term partner because they are recently disabled (say they suddenly lost their legs or ability to walk), but are fully functional on their own, you’re a bad person.
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ziizey<3
This is the coldest take ever. Everyone should agree with this, ur absolutley right!!
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Still forget that "femoids" and "moids" didn't die as a phrase in 2010. But also, if your partner wont do dishes, you should leave them as well. Sorry, not sorry, life is about splitting up chores, no matter who you live with.
Would love to know more about your opinion of "Mentally ill people should either not date or be really careful.". What is mentally ill in your opinion? Is it OCD? Is it autism? Is it ptsd?
Do agree with you that mentally ill people can be victims a lot, but your statement seems to forget that most abusers are very mentally ill, or at least imbalanced. And in our experience, most of the worst abusers are mentally ill/imbalanced in some way.
And yeah, don't know about people sending sh pictures. Back in our day, everyone just posted that crap on a throwaway tumblr lol
Sorry, I defo didn’t clarify enough in my post! I was on the verge of falling asleep whenever I was writing these lolz. What I mean is that if you have a severe mental illness like a personality disorder or depression or just anything that can affect other people strongly, I would recommend getting care BEFORE getting into a relationship. Mental stability on both ends is always the healthiest and this is coming from a person with a few mental conditions. And I meant that they forgot to do the dishes one night, not that they consistently don’t do the dishes.
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I feel like those takes are not hot everything you said is right! Especially the disability take I can’t imagine leaving someone just because they get a disability especially if it’s something like having to use crutches or a wheelchair they’re still the same person!
calebb.coolaid
recently disabled - if that means being semi/full time caregiver on your end, I think its reasonable. I wouldn't wanna be randomly forced into that position in a 1/2 month relationship. If my boyfriend now did, I would but that's because we've been dating for a year and more and I feel I can take on that roll. If disabled in this sense means "oh like I cant walk but I can do everything else " yeah that makes you a bad person
I meant long term relationships. Like if your partner suddenly lost their legs, but they have a wheelchair and you only don’t like them because they don’t have legs, you’re an asshole. It’s it’s like a 2 weeks relationship and they’re in need of an actual caregiver, that’s fair
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okay then yes totes agree 🙏
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