hate it

My dad does not like me having piercings so I can't have anymore, I currently have 2 earring holes but my brother has 4 and I'm telling my dad that they are not permanent anyway like I could get the earring out and wtvr but Im not allowd to get another hole and this inequalty btween me n my brother makes me crash out. I can't even dye my hair in any color, does not matter what style. I want to get piercings when I move out to study at a college thats hopefully in another country but even if I get piercings I dont know how will I hide them or if I will need to hide them. My grandpa's very strict about this too he still doesn't know the 2 earring holes i've got since both of them are on my left ear. They've never seen the left of my face and I still dont understand how they dont notice the 2 dots that are darker than my skin. I hate the fact that I have to hide my freedom and the fact that these people are my family and I have to get along with them. Dont get me wrong I love them but not their mindsets about piercings. clothes, piercings, hair doesn't have gender rules people do!