I can’t stop dating musicians and writers

How do people romanticize this? I keep on dating guys that write me songs or write stories about characters based on me and I just don’t see how people can be like “oh to have this kind of love…” ??? You can find them anywhere. I wonder if these people have ever had a boyfriend because all of mine have like wrote me songs, wrote stories, made paintings, and like it’s getting to the point that the most unique (not good, but definitely notable) thing a guy has ever done for me is try to sacrifice himself in a ritual with a dagger he made out of pure bone to ensure that we were together in the afterlife. Like that was peak creativity.