So if you not someone who’s read my other two blogs here’s some context, I have a crush on this guy well call Catboy and nobody knows. My friend puppygirl likes him (he turned her down)
So I feel absolutely horrible to puppygirl even though I haven’t even tried anything with Catboy I feel like the mere notion that I have a crush on Catboy is like a betrayal to her not to mention if the guilt I feel if I so much as think about confessing.
I’ve also been getting jealous a lot more lately when it comes to him like he’ll talk to our other friends or to puppygirl or hang out w them and not msg me back or repost stuff about them and I genuinely can’t help myself from getting upset, I don’t take it out on him or anyone I jsut ignore it but I’ve gotten to the point I’ve considered ghosting him cause I can’t deal with my feelings or at least backing off a bit.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore cause it hurts to think about him getting w anyone else but I can’t ask him out cause I would be betraying puppygirl.
ill be honest as someone who's been in this situation before on both ends, it doesn't matter. nothing will truly last unless its meant to be! if your friend ends up being so butthurt about it its saying more about her than it ever will you and catboy, plus you never truly know if catboy even likes you back to begin with. so I say shoot the shot and if it goes in the basket? its goes, if it doesn't then life moves on and you'll be fine. the world won't end because of a silly little crush and a salty puppygirl. truthfully I don't know any of you and puppygirl can be super understanding, but you just never know with people. so be cautious moving forward and don't stop for the people who want ill for you. it isn't worth the time and energy worrying about others.
Exactly, you said it better than I do.
Well, shoot the shot I guess.
But I hope puppy girl would be understanding about it.
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Cysper04
I don't know what kind of advice I could give you on this one.... But you'll have to choose between the two.
Your feelings for the guy by confessing your feelings on him but you have no guarantee he'll accept you and be his girlfriend.
But on the other hand you might be stepping on eggshells with puppy girl.
Or just throw your feelings away and ghost him just for your friend but you're not risking your friendship over some guy.
You gotta choose wisely, and I hope whatever you choose things would go well for you and I hope you all the best. :)
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ill be honest as someone who's been in this situation before on both ends, it doesn't matter. nothing will truly last unless its meant to be! if your friend ends up being so butthurt about it its saying more about her than it ever will you and catboy, plus you never truly know if catboy even likes you back to begin with. so I say shoot the shot and if it goes in the basket? its goes, if it doesn't then life moves on and you'll be fine. the world won't end because of a silly little crush and a salty puppygirl. truthfully I don't know any of you and puppygirl can be super understanding, but you just never know with people. so be cautious moving forward and don't stop for the people who want ill for you. it isn't worth the time and energy worrying about others.
Exactly, you said it better than I do.
Well, shoot the shot I guess.
But I hope puppy girl would be understanding about it.
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