idk how people do it

How do people find so many people interested in dating them? specifically talking about gay people as our dating pool is a lot smaller than most. Like I know only 2 gay dudes(who I'm not interested in) and yet somehow they've had a gazillion talking stages, and the issue isn't like me or at least I don't think so but how are y'all even finding so any gay people, I LITERALLY AM THE ONLY ONE AT MY SCHOOL. also I run into every other type of queer so often so idk if like being a gay dude is just like rare or if I'm just unlucky