i'm so sick of this.

why is it that i can never find a girl who like people like me ? like i'm so sick of some people in the lesbian and bisexual community only going after the big chested and bigger areas. it generally peeves me off. yes i understand its a personal preference but i feel like  most of the queer community only cares about looks just like cis straight people. i can not for the life of me find someone who will love me for me instead of a personal object to pick out of. i'm sick of it and we as a whole community need to do better. i want someone to love me even if i don't have those attributes because i don't have them and its pissing me off that every time i like someone its a girl who likes big chested women only like yes they are pretty but we need to actually love that person for who they are. i am not saying all of the queer community is like this but its quite a lot. and before you come after me for comparing the queer community straight people that's how most of you act. again this is based off MY experience. (i will be also posting this on the forum because i can)