Is MCR problematic?

Before I say anything, just know this is out of curiosity, so please don't come at me. I know there's a lot of MCR fans on here lmao so if you genuinely know anything, could you explain or maybe give me evidence? I've been reluctant to listening to their music because of all this, but they were my favorite band.

I already knew Bob was problematic. I've heard that Mikey Way cheated on his wife for someone younger, although there's a lot of denial towards that. But what I did not expect is to learn that Gerard Way was (**ALLEGEDLY**) friends with Jimmy Urine from MSI (who's allegedly sexual assaulted minors. Some of MSI's songs are weird as fuck, I hate them) even after the allegations against him. And hes married to the bassist of MSI who (**ALLEGEDLY**) said the N word at an MSI concert (along with the other band members)?? And I've heard that she's still friends with Jimmy Urine. I just never understood how she stayed in the band in the first place.

I became pretty upset because I looked up to Gerard Way and it didn't make sense to me that he would have relations with people so opposite of what seemed like he stood for. 

Is there any way that this gets better? Is there any evidence for this stuff? I expect there to be a lot of MCR experts on here