lunch brakes can be cray crayy

Okay I'm still a bit dazzled, I was done with lunch as some colleagues came by. A and B started chatting quickly about A's friend. Said friend split up from her fiancé because he had a CHILD with his affair that he NEVER told her. She knew about the affair but not about the child, or more TEENAGER because this child is 13 aroundish old. WTFFF worst part is that colleagues friend wanted to marry this man, everything was set up and then he told her. 

Colleague B on the other hand told a story about her husbands father, said father CHEATED on his wife for 40 YEARS, his wife knew but his children didn't. So like any normal person would (*cough cough* sarcasm) he told his kids AFTER his wife died. 

What is wrong with men. Like the audacity. And both were on business trips, where they cheated on their wifes. 

Prayingg my bf would never cheat on me, because I would loose trust in every other man after that and would then only date women, or noone anymore idk tbh