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Normal Boyfriend Life

Honestly I just wanted a social media account that takes away from the reality of my Life


I'm not saying my life is bad-not at all but I think it's healthy to have a way to cope once in a while especially away from people


I have a Boyfriend, we've been together 2 years since sophomore year of High school! I love him very much and I sorta wanna talk about how having a boyfriend doesn't have to be this dramatic thing where feelings are constantly all over the place. Because it's not. it's actually the most simple shit on the planet!! (wow)

I feel like the start is definitely more dramatic than it needs to be, your told how love can control your soul and either break you or make your life ascend or some stupid talk like that. I'm not saying loving a lot is bad, some people love that. But in my opinion you should be taking things extremely slow. In my past relationships I decided to take things fast constantly because I felt like I had to or I was missing out, Instead that made my partners think I wanted things fast so I would get uncomfortable and leave. 


TEXTING

Me and my bf text whenever, sometimes we don't text for days on end, once even a week. A lot of my friends during that time in high school thought it was really weird. And I can understand how it might seem that way especially since we make it the norm for relationships to be this constant thing in a way where you gotta always say good morning and goodnight-In fact! we don't do that either unless we are already awake and texting eachother in the morning or were already texting at night!

Some people accused me of being toxic just because I don't respond right away, both me and my boyfriend dgaf when you text back as long as it happens eventually, we are both busy or possibly just don't feel motivated to talk and we UNDERSTAND that.


DATING

Going out on dates happens rarely, we go on dates either once a month or once every two months. Not because we don't have the time but mostly because i'm happy staying at home most days while he gets to go out with friends more-it's a win win for both of us!

Dates don't have to be romantic.

they really don't.


anyways that's my brain fart

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