Not everythng needs to be fixed

Can we please fucking normalize letting ppl be upset without immediatly trying to fix??? Because why the hell is it that the second you tell someone abt something thats bothering you, tey immediatly start to explain what you should do abt it? Like, bro, im not asking you to fix my entire damn life. Im just telling you abt something that upset me. And sometimes i already KNOW what i could do differently, That doesnt meaan im suddenly not allowed to be upset abt what happened. I can understand why something happened and still be hurt by it. Those two things can exist at the same time. And i feel like ppl forget that sometimes, listening to someone doesnt mean you have to agree with everything they say or come up with some life changing advice. Sometimes you can literally just let someone talk. You dont have to turn every uncomfortable feeling into a lesson or a learning experience. Like, le me be upset for five mins, i'll figure it out eventually.

Anyways, back to rotting, so byebye <3