opinion on shojo harem mangas/animes?

i see a lot of ppl prefer shounen/bishojo, but i personally like bishojo/bishounen/shojo harems, bc they're jst WAY better, rather its yaoi or yuri (yuri harems are so rare but SOO GOOD) sum of my fav examples are paradisekiss, pretear, and otoboku ; maidens are falling for me, due to their focus on the actual romance aspect instead of how shounen is usually just : "omg big tiddy goth gf, but idc bc im a big boy now!!!(•؎ •)" like dude...anyways do u prefer shojo or shounen harem manga/animes???