BE HONEST!!
I keep getting really jealous of who my boyfriend speaks to.. I don't know i just really hate it and i mean i understand that he can be friends and talk to anyone he wants to but there is this person who he sometimes speaks to and this is the one i get the MOSTTT jealous over.. But its because my boyfriend use to like them and they have been friends for a while so i don't know what to do. i have told him i get this stupid jealously over them and how that this person is so much better then me and prettier, I also get stupid jealous as i have a more idk i weigh more while this person weighs way less then me and my partner is also weights a lot less then me it kind of put a idea in my head that he should be with someone like himself, i get way to sensitive and cry all the time to him and most of the time he cant handle it but if i don't tell him when something is wrong he gets sad but that doesn't matter..
All i want to know is if Im being way to jealous and shouldn't worry about this at all. I know that they don't have feelings for each other in any way but should i just not worry about it anymore or is my worrying valid..
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zerogravity
its a perfectly normal thing to feel insecure, honestly if you brought it to his attention, MULTIPLE times it isnt something he should go without acknowledging. If he respects you and cares for you he will reassure you. If he doesnt then that mans a pussy and cant address basic, easy-to-fix problems and you should leave and find a guy who actually has balls xx
poisoned
i have severe jealousy issues so i understand. there isnt much to do besides this:
1. confront ur bf (not confront but like talk to him wtv) and try to see if you can get him to block them or stop talking to them as much, maybe like once or twice a week, or at least get your bf to give them dry responses
2. try your hardest to get over it and just get used to it, try being a little more vulnerable, as long as your bf is fully trustworthy
3. leave. if your bf isnt willing to help you out here, reassure you, and youre not capable of getting over this jealousy problem, you should leave.
it hurts to let go, but it hurts more to hold on.