your sex isnt related to your gender you're not less of your gender bc ur transsexual

i know some of you will get mad at me using the word 'transsexual' but i like to separate 'transgender' people (who are valid!) like nonbinaries, demigenders, etc to people who are 'transsexual, people who are fully the other binary gender and want to transition to it. all of these people are on the transgender spectrum (or at least the gender nonconforming spectrum) but transsexuals are the extremes of the spectrum which is why i separate them from the rest. this is also why i call myself a transsexual. 

your sex is completely unrelated to your gender. not only is the idea of someone who is 100% male or female outdated, as all of us have a mix of masculine and feminine characteristics + intersex people exist and may be more common than you think, sex is also completely irrelevant to your gender. i need to get this fully through your head. your SEX. IS. IRRELEVANT. COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT. the only reason why being 'cisgender' even matters is because we've put those societal standards onto people. the only reason why cisgender is a thing is because we've put aesthetics onto ourselves based off of our sex. but in reality our sex is not relevant to our gender at all.

if you are a trans or cis man, the 'trans' or 'cis' part does not matter. your body doesnt matter. i dont care if youre cis, trans or a fucking snail with a man symbol on it because your body isnt relevant. why would a biological thing be relevant to something that is almost purely psychological (not talking about gender dysphoria, talking about specifically identifying as a man). the important part is 'MAN'. you aren't a man because you're male, you're not less of a man because you're female. not at all. you're a man because you FUCKING IDENTIFY AS ONE. THAT IS THE ONLY THING THAT IS RELEVANT. SEX DOES NOT MATTER. 

obviously some of us will think that we're less of a man because we're female and it really just isnt true. you're not immoral for having gender dysphoria, obviously, im extremely gender dysphoric. but you're insulting yourself if you say you'll never be a real man. you're a man because you identify as one, regardless of what society thinks and what people say. be confident in yourself. ive put a spell on this blog so everyone who is trans gets instant hormones to help with their dysphoria because you all deserve it.

also get into manifestation so u can manifest yourself looking more masc or fem so you pass better.. while this blog is all about sex not being relevant i do understand that most of us do want to look cisgender due to our dysphoria. so dont feel bad for wanting to look cis. but remind yourself that you are what you think you are. even if society doesnt think that.