˚˖𓍢ִ໋❀ how do people make friends here ?

    it seems like every site i get on, i SUCK at making friends. i'll be very outgoing and happy to talk to people, but i'm always scared of it being cliquey and ending up with no actual friends. maybe it's me being overly self conscious, i just think i'm kind of annoying to others so maybe they just naturally avoid me? i wanna make friends so bad though !!!!  (,,•᷄﹏‎•᷅,,)

just lurk on the forums, blogs, whatever

post whatever ya feel is appropriate

wait for comments to roll in

see its happening already! :o

You can send out friend requests to people. I did that on spacehey when I still had an account. Takes time but eventually you'll have quite a few friends.

Check out people's profiles (on blogs/forums/cool new people) and if you think they're cool, send a request!

Check in as often as you have the spoons and time for, comment on those friends' stuff when you have something to say! Even a simple "🩷🩵" shows you read it and are checking in! I've made lovely friends I care about lots just from checking in on bulletins, (without even IMing, but that adds a whole other layer) :)

And then people who comment on your friends' bulletins are good next places to look for friends, you'll become a part of a little community that way! And dont be discouraged, some of us have been friends for years across sites, it takes time.

I believe in you!