To begin my parents are not together and my bio mom is unsafe to be around so i do not have a relationship with her anymore because it was abusive. So naturally i was excited when my dad remarried because i thought i would finally have a mom but no of course it didnt work out this way. I feel like she hates me. She constantly judges me for everything i do like how i dress, how i talk, my interests, my morals, my belifes, my good habbits, my bad habbits, literally everything. She told me to my face that she hates me and it shows. When i was in my darkest mental state i was in and out of wards and while that was happening she sold my cat the only thing i had left, threw away my clothes, and got rid of my art. And for the times when i was home out of the wards she would insult me constantly. Her behavior is more so passive agressive now and not as intense but it still really affects my mental health and i wish she would just leave.
I'm very sorry you're going through this, I was in a very similar situation when I was your age so I want to give you hope that it does get better, not because THEY get any better but because soon you will be old enough to get a job, save money, and get the hell out of there
never felt more empowered in my life than when my stepmom sat me down right before HS graduation to tell me she hated me and wanted me out, and I told her I already had saved $5,000 and would be moving across the country in 3 weeks - BYEEEE
you got this. I promise.
get a job, save everything, and hang in there. getting out is right around the corner and you'll be amazed how your mental health improves instantly when you get out a situation like that. it was like being alive for the very first time.
life is a garden, not a gate ♥
Thank you so much! this really means a lot too me.
I def will start saving up and i have a plan to move in with my older sister so hopefully that works out.
but again thank you sm this really encourages me.
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