post your am I the asshole stories here bc I rlly want to give my opinion. I have rlly good insight.🤔
okay so AITA
hieee! I'm Athens and I'm 17! so basically there's this girl who's been like really mean all throughout like the whole time at school, she has an ED and dated a known pedophile, she brought people down using her ED by being like "wowow! I could like neeever eat all that!"
so I catch wind that she's pregnant with the pedophiles kids (btw, she's not underage they're both the same age she isn't a victim dw) and btw she knew this guy was a pedo and still defended him but like anyway I obviously can't keep this drama to myself and I spread it round cause like DUH
then it gets to the wrong girl and she SNITCHES! I lie my way through saying I didn't start anything but I don't think she believes me
anyway was I wrong? I don't really care cause it was funny but still
@bendelacunt
No but yes because you definitely could’ve just saved that for yourself but no because shes a mean person in general and she knows who she’s dating with no care in the world at that. She would have gone for him either way you spin. Not to be that way but victim or not she deff wouldnt care.. so thats insane but spreading that with no reason to was kinda wrong. Just cuz u have the power to doesn’t mean u should. You shouldn’t be telling people business regardless who the person is. Overall NO you are NOT the asshole :)
@bendelacunt
in my opinion, no. I get that it’s wrong to go talking behind someone’s back but in my book, there are acceptions. If someone is out there doing these kinds of things knowingly and they have the intent to hurt people, by all means I think people should talk about it and why it’s an issue. You are not the asshole.
I had an autistic shutdown and unintentionally ignored my online friend for a week without telling anything. am I an asshole?
@snake_or_snack not really enough info. have you ghosted them before like this? is it a habit? if it’s a one off thing then nta but if it’s happening consistently and you’re not telling them why then you may be da asshowe. too vague to really give a definitive answer though
ngl i do the exact same thing and people rlly just dont understand. i literally had to set an alarm on my phone for everyday telling me to answer people back so they dont stay on delivered. its a mindset thing for me idrk the reasoning behind it…ur not the asshole in my eyes but maybe to others
I wrote a super long story here and accidentally deleted it.. So lets do it again!! sorry if it doesnt feel full im doing this super quickly.
AITA for telling people my ex bf and his new gf are racist?
So this all happened the start of this year. Me and my ex bf (I'll call him MA) weren't dating anymore, but we ended things on good terms. During the last summer I even helped him get with his new gf (I'll call her LI).
MA and LI had been dating for a month before this happened.
I knew LI saw me as a threat, she barely talked to me and didn't like her bf talking to me since we used to date. She thought I'd steal him from her.
Now I need to say I didn't know ANYTHING about him being racist when we first started dating, this was completely new to me. I would never date a guy like this.
While he started dating LI I noticed a change in their behaviour. They would both randomy say or even type the
N-word (HARD R) while talking to me.
I didn't fuck with this since it's not okay to say that, I'm sure everyone knows that.
I overheard a random kid once refer to them as racist and when the other person asked why the random kid said that MA had the N-word written on his arm and everyone could see. AT A PUBLIC SCHOOL TOO WTF??
When I heard this I immediately warned them that there was shit going around the school about them being racist. I told them to stop, but they just assumed I made these rumors up and spread them around myself.
These were already going around, sure I did tell a few people but their image was already ruined by then.
LI ended up telling me to not talk to her or MA ever again. She later told someone she didn't care that people knew she used the n-word, she cared that I spread the rumor
I never started it, did spread it more however AFTER telling them to stop and they didn't.
Idc if im the asshole here, they deserved it lmfao!!
They're still racist btw
-xoxo ThatGirlNextdoor
@Thatgirlnextdoor you are not the asshole at all and they are super racist like it's painfully obvious
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