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Why the judgment?

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I like to read; nah, I LOVE to read; however, even I have limits.  I can not consume a lot of books in a year.  It is mainly because, yes, I do in fact have other hobbies and a family and a full-time job. I do not understand how other readers can blatantly judge someone on how many books they consume in a year; I sort of blame GOODREADS for it.  I am lucky if I can truly get to 15 books by the end of the year, yet I noticed in certain environments readers with numbers in the higher digits look down upon readers like me.  I have been told not to call myself a bookworm, that clearly I do not enjoy reading, that I am a fraud.  

Why?  Since the rise of BookTok and other things, I have seen so much judgment in the reading community.  It is disgusting. 

examples:

e-books vs. physical books

audiobooks vs. visual readers

genres vs. genres

ebooks vs. ebooks

how fast one reads a book vs. how slow someone reads

indie bookstore shoppers vs. big box store shoppers

authors vs. authors

DNF vs. must finish it

People say reading makes you smarter...so I am sorry, why are we fighting over trivial matters such as these?  If someone consumes a book and enjoys it, let it be. Share their joy in it.  It is not that hard. Judgement should not be anywhere near the reading community, in my opinion.  

I will stand by the fact that if you read a book and enjoyed it, be proud of it. Claim it.  Talk about it, and if you can not find someone who will be happy with you, find me; I will be happy with you. 

🕯️ "Meet me where the leaves are falling and the air feels like magic."

That is because both the reading and writing communities are infested with people eager to classify and demean others, and who often do so based on minuscule observations or assumptions about another’s personality, physical attributes, or characteristics (e.g., whether they use an ebook reader). What should be groups united in intellectual or relaxing pursuits instead devolves into societies fractured by suspicion and accusation. It’s sick, it’s wrong, and it’s also the world of unrepentant division in which we live today. Please, if possible, stay true to your reading goals and try to ignore the snarling wolves around you.

~RWARwriter (Red, White and Real)

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