I'm so confused about my sexuality ://

For maybe a year or two now, i've been questioning if I not only like guys, but also girls. So i thought 'oh, maybe i'm just a bit bicurious', bc i've never dated a girl. I know it'd different from dating a guy (which i've also never done), but I think I am attracted to girls..but again idk. I'd kiss a girl, i've even seen a girl n@ked in irl but i've had mixed feelings abt it. It happened ages ago with someone I was friends with, and it made me question myself a lot.

But tbh, I might also be attracted to everyone. Maybe i'm pansexual? Idk. When i think abt it, i'd be open to having a romantic relationship with any gender, idc what their gender is, but idk if i'm pan or just bi, idek :(

I get that. I'm bisexual (allegedly) but i feel like i might be lesbian. i've only really liked one guy before, but even then i didn't want to date him. i don't know if im like aexual or lesbian or like just nuerodivergent as fuck and cant tell the difference between platonic and romantic interest. (1/3 is true take ur guesses people) sorry for the kinda vent/rant LOL.

if you feel like you'd be okay with having a relationship with anyone of any gender you are probably pan. its a complicated road to go down trying to figure out ur sexuality. I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!

Hello! Check out the the Am I a Lesbian/Compulsory Heterosexuality MasterDoc. If you don't want to read it, there's a lot of YouTube videos! It's not perfect, but it's a start (:

I also just wanted to say that you don't need to fit yourself into any particular box to be valid. Just love who you love and love them well <3

My partner didn't come out as bisexual until she was 32. She didn't know for sure until she was in her late 20s. She's never dated or had sex with a woman. Despite this, she's still bisexual. 

I wanted to tell you this because realizing your sexuality can be a long process. Sometimes it's a realization. Sometimes it's an experience. Sometimes it's a sudden shift. Sometimes it's a slow change within oneself. There's no rush. You will be certain someday but right now is a good time for you to try things out.

Might I also suggest that sexuality is fluid! You may be more pan at some points in your life, lesbian in others, perhaps straight at other times. Maybe it's a shift in gender preference, rather than a totally sexuality shift, but I feel like sometimes there's a pressure to have it all figured out. But it may never be fully figured out! Certainly reflect on yourself and find community and support, but try not to let it give you grief, especially as regards pinning down something 100% concrete.

being confused abut this kinda stuff now may seem so complicated now but its the most simple and natural thing in the world because your not JUST curious about your sexuality your curious about who you are as a person and that is the most natural thing a human can think about

sexuality can be fluid just like gender. for me i typically prefer cis guys and outwardly present fem so i thought i was a straight girl for a loooooooong time, then i realized i was genderfluid after comparing notes with other fluid people and around the same time realized 'wait, occasionally i wanna kiss women too" so adopted the bi label. 

sometimes it takes a few decades to find the label that fits you and new categories crop up all the time. you don't have to use a label if you don't like any of them either.

Some people know sooner and some know l8er, both are a okay! Personally I knew since like 6th grade. 

Ive had romantic attraction twords women and id do everything ive done with a man with a woman. There are also queer people out there who would be okay to let you experiment. Now ik I might get h8 for saying that just hear me out. 

Experimenting is important, now if you get talking with a girl and you get feelings and she does too, id let her know your situation on not being completely sure. Now if she isn't okay with that then you can move on, but if she is okay with you trying to figure it out id say take your shot. It isn't criminal to try to understand yourself better. 

There isn't some clock counting down for you to decide, and if it turns out you aren't bi/pan then thats also okay. 

im not the best at helping out because i suck at explaining but here's my take on it

if you feel like you have little to no preference for guys, girls, and nonbinary people, then you are pansexual. if you do have a preference it's bisexual. sometimes, the only way to find out is to just do it. I've been a lesbian practically my whole life but if i hadn't dated women, i would've just thought i was aro ace. 

i'd try to really question it, but sexuality is inherently fluid. it fluctuates overtime, so if you find yourself only fancying guys in the future, that's always okay. you might not be right the first few times but life is about experiences. the more you exxperience, the more you'll learn more about you and the world you live in.

sorry its like super long

i feel the exact same way! just know you dont need to figure it all out now. it comes with time and experience! for the longest time i didnt really care what i was, if i liked someone, i got with them. i didnt label myself, i just went with how i was feeling. i felt like if i labeled myself i was confined to have feelings for that gender, and i couldnt express any interest in other genders, if that makes sense. thats not everyones experience but it was mine. hopefully my insight helps a little