Ok soo, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost six months now and we've been smooth sailing but now I feel like there's a shift in our relationship and I mainly think it's because we both just graduated and now we're about to start this whole new chapter in our lives so it's starting to feel real that we're actually adults now . For example, I'm enlisted in the Army and I leave for bootcamp in October, and while he has the same plan he wants to go to college first and then go to the airforce. Now the reason why i'm bringing this up is because lately it feels like I've been bothering him too much so I've just sat back and waited until he had free time to talk because it also seems like he's not as interested anymore when we text and yes I know your probably like "how can you interpret how he's texting" listennnnnn i'm just a girl mmkayy if something feels off 9 times out ten IT'S OFFF so like what do I do. It's also scary because we both are each other's first real relationship and firsts for ifykyk so it also might just be the attachment that comes with that that's making me feel that way but idkkkkk mannn I'm just trying to take it day by day but I feel like something is just slipping out of my life but I could also just be telling myself that because I'm scared...
Any advice on what to do?