my best friend is making more friends and finiding love and i know he's activly not replacing me but i still cant help but feel jealous because hes hanging out with more people than me, how do i over come this because I dont wanna be feeling this
BEEN THERE 
jealousy is genuinely the bane of my existence. for me i think it comes from this idea that im replaceable and everyone whos ever claimed to love me is just waiting for someone better to come along. that i dont do enough to "earn" their love, and so theyll eventually find someone who can. i dont know if thats relatable at all to you. but my advice to you is that caring deeply about one person doesnt take away from your love for another. think about it like this; love is a quality, not a quantity. you cant give all of your love to one person, you can love two people equally and that doesnt minimize how much you care about either of them. i dont know you or your best friend but im sure they care about you very much, and im sure youre enough for them. sorry if this sounds stupid im horrible with words but just remember youre NOT ALONE IN THIS and you can overcome it. 
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