Mine is when they say hi to dogs like the dog is an actual person
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Replying to @pondjoose
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“@Katie 🩷 Exactly! Same here. Its good to put the same good out into the world that you receive- keeps the good feelings circulating”
@pondjoose P.S. I am trying to add you, but it's not letting me click the Add Friend button lol.
@Katie 🩷 I can see if it'll let me add you first :) i might have to redo my cursor bc it's a bit jank
yes to all the above!!! paying attention to every little detail and being attentive is top on my list, as well as selflessness. helping the cashier bag the groceries, offering to help clean up a mess, doing things without someone having to ask. those are such good qualities that I wish everyone had, hahah.
@Linkie yes me too!!! should be baseline human behavior for sure lol :)
When someone is dumb enough to inadvertently reference one of your very favorite special interests, and in spite of yourself, you start chitter chattering about it in a way that is off putting to most ... but SOMEHOW this person 'gets it' and is versed in the same topic, and excited to chat too!
@Cranky Old Witch oooo yes this is the best feeling, get into a flow state and everything lol
when someone does little things without people watching like picking up a piece of trash that wasn't even theirs and throwing it away or straightening their seat when they get up so its not in the way. little actions that not many people notice go a long way in my eyes.
@queenoftherats yes this!!!
having manners and some etiquette…it feels so dead these days. people block a hallway and you say “excuse me” just to get ignored. “thank you” doesn’t get a “no problem” “you’re welcome!” sometimes it’s just a nod. Had a project with a guy like 2 years ago and he was SO well mannered…”could you please look at…” “if you have the time I would like…” “can you please hand me the…” and i was WOWED he was soft spoken and well mannered and it was so nice<3
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@ziv yes!! manners and etiquette are a lost art!!
I absolutely love it when I'm being sarcastic in a conversation and the other person just plays along with the sarcasm like nothing's wrong lol
@Laura.jpg yes this! i also love when people get the bits that i do or finish them or do it with me
When i am not misgendered by folks who know that I am nonbinary.
But if it's someone new... when they ask everyone in a group for their pronouns, without knowing that I am nonbinary.
When they treat kids with respect.
When my weird and their weird compliment.
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@Witchy Cuban Crocodile yess!! all this
Witchy Cuban Crocodile wrote:
When i am not misgendered by folks who know that I am nonbinary.But if it's someone new... when they ask everyone in a group for their pronouns, without knowing that I am nonbinary. When they treat kids with respect. When my weird and their weird compliment.
This is why you're may favorite sib from another crib
ooh..for me..when they show interest in my art and genuinely support me, like make little requests from me and actually show interest, not just "oh that's cool"
like ACTUAL interest..
And when they communicate well. I LOVE COMMUNCIATION. currently.. talking to someone who fucking love talking..they're one of my close kinda friends now and we KNOW we like each other we just haven't gone into anything cuz I think he's a little nervous 🥹
my bad for the little yap XDD
@K3.D0D0.b1rd yap away my friend, this is great, i totally agree. i'm a fellow yapper once i'm comfortable with someone
@Street Angel totally, growing together is important for both romantic and platonic relationships
When they go into long in depth philosophical/intellectual high-brow discussions like @Kayla on spacehey! 😘
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