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Hi I'm 18 and I'm transmasc and mlm and I haven't had much luck in finding boyfriend let alone a talking stage. I present more feminine and I haven't come out to a whole lot of people so I always end up having these younger guys see me as a mother figure more than their crush??? (mind you I make it VERY clear to them that I like OLDER guys). I haven't had that problem as much since I've gotten out of high school though so that's good at least. 

I've only had one boyfriend and it only lasted a month because he ended up being a male manipulator and every guy I've liked since then are taken or straight. I can never find anyone who is my type in the wild either. I'm sorta open to online dating but I want to be careful about it because there are creeps out there. It makes me feel like I'm never gonna find love unless he lives a gazillion miles away. :((

Any advice??

boy idk if ur a spirtual boy or smth manifest it or smth

My only advice is just keep meeting all kinds of people, that's how I eventually met someone I dated for a long time (am also transmasc mlm presenting feminine). I'm a bit of a weird case tho bc I ended up finding out I'm aroace right before dating someone but thats a whole other story. But yeah just keep meeting people, go to like social hangouts and stuffs. 

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Something I recently had to learn was to stop hiding my true self if I was gonna go after something I wanted. I dress masculine and feminine, and I felt like I had to suppress my feminine side just for guys to notice me. But I realised I wasn't being my true authentic self and I also wasn't getting what I wanted; because once they found out I like makeup and dressing up, they ditched like there was no tomorrow.


My best advice to you is to keep putting yourself out there. The right one will find you 🕯

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Thanks twin 

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