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Most would argue that looks compare nothing to personality but me personally i say both looks and personality play a big role; this "role" isnt an exact percentage, I believe everyone has their own preferences but who knows. im curious on what others have to say about this.

30/70 for me. personality is more important but looks are important aswell

we'll pretend to leave and then, we'll meet again, when both our cars collide.

i think personality is way more important than looks... yes i want a cute partner but cuteness is less important.. cause liek what if u date someone cause theyre cute..... but they r boring.... i want a partner with good personality....

If I like someone that much, I'll end up finding them cute regardless honestly. Looks don't play into it like at all for me. You could be the most average guy and I'll find something about you I think is gorgeous. 

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@AlterEgoAlmond That's what i'm saying, looks don't really matter, but even if they ain't my type lookwise, i still find them attractive for their personality and they look attractive after I start liking them, personality over looks anyday.

I would say yes somewhat, without conversation someone's look is likely what first gets you interested into them. But if they look nice but have a shit personality than I'm leaving. Looks don't matter to me as much as other people I think, judging by online discussions anyway but that's probably because I don't think anyone is ugly. Everyone visually has something that is attractive in my opinion. 

in a way, i guess so? id say i kinda have a type, but if i am genuinely attracted to a person's personality and overall demeanor, then i find them physically attractive as well even if they arent what im typically attracted to. but i dunno really :p

i feel like personality can make a person look hot, like theyre so cool u just want them to be hot. my ex is chopped asf but he seemed great so yay what a hottie, but now i hardly wanna look at him bc how did i ignore that bald spot :gasp:

Looks are important but personality is much more important. If I can't stand being around you then it obviously isn't going to work out.

savvluvsllamas__ wrote:
30/70 for me.

I agree with 30/70 being a good ratio.

"I'll have two number 9's, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45's, one with cheese, and a large soda."



its huge bro. the best way i could put it is looks gets you the interview but personality gets you the job... both are required and you need both to succeed. No one is gonna marry someone they think is ugly, just like no one is gonna marry someone they aren't compatible with politically or intellectually

Looks is really important for the first time so things go well , first impression need a good look then personality play another big role 


for me it’s not really about their looks... more about how they present themselves. if they don’t have an “ interesting” personality (by my standards of course) they also look “boring” usually. still… that’s just the first impression they leave on you ofc :kaboom:

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