am i the asshole for this? or is this okay to feel like...
theres a multitude of reasons for why i've wanted to break up with my boyfriend for more than half of our relationship, but one of them is that i dont find him attractive anymore due to his weight gain. hes gained somewhere near 50lbs and hes changed a lot, and i know some people will come at me and be like "its not about the looks its about pErSonALiTy", so idk, but like i said this isnt the main reason why i want to break up with him. theres also been a bunch of self discovery ive gone through and boundaries that have been established and crossed, but i just kinda feel like an asshole when i see photos of him now and think that hes ugly. am i valid for losing feelings for him because of his looks?
