I get told that I’m annoying by my friends and it really upsets me. I’m not a loud person. I’m quite quiet around people I’m not close friends with. but apparently I annoy my close friends. I think partially it’s cuz I’m impulsive and I think when I want to get my friends attention I can kinda be annoying.
but even ppl who I’ve tried to back off from interacting with (so I don’t annoy them) still say they find me annoying. even though I don’t talk to them much or even talk about my own interests around them.
I think this kinda stresses some of my relationships. my boyfriend has never called me annoying but I’m too afraid to act myself around him cuz I’m afraid of annoying him. so I’m pretty reserved and don’t talk much when around him.
any advice is appreciated