I've been researching attachment styles and I am quite intrigued to hear stuff from the community. Which one do you guys have, how do you tell which one you have, and can they ever change from one negative to another? (e.g. instead of anxious to secure, it would be anxious to avoidant.).
I think throughout all of my relationships I've been anxiously attached, but I'm starting to also experience signs of an avoidant. I want my own space and start to feel suffocated and bottle up my feelings. I also don't trust to let those feelings out and really be vulnerable sometimes, but in fear of upsetting my partner, and I freeze up when being confronted about my feelings, sweeping them under the rug or saying they aren't there. However, I still don't want "just casual" (of course I don't), I have low-self esteem and I can be (or used to be idk anymore) overdependent on my partner, as my mood depended on how she was feeling. I'm also aware of every change in tone or the general vibe. I don't know if that's my style changing or if I am fearful (Anxious avoidant) attached. I also read that having a fearful attachment is rather uncommon, so I'd stick with the anxious label.
Let me know down below what you guys are and if you relate to this, and correct me if I'm wrong on anything!! ;w;
