okay so there’s this dude that my friends and I have been trying to get out of our friend group for a while but we have no idea how to. I’m going to list some of the reasons why. note that we HAVE tried to tell this person that this behavior is unacceptable but they do not listen
first thing I’d like to start off with is, I’m not sure if this dude is trying to be edgy and get a reaction or if he is genuinely just ignorant.
first off, this person is insanely classist. he tries to call himself “middle middle class” but he constantly brags about his wealth and is obvi high middle class. I am friends with some people who live in low income houses and he constantly judges them and makes fun of them for being poor. which they have told him isn’t okay MANY TIMES.
he is also super fatphobic towards anyone who weights anything higher than him. he makes fun of people who he knows have had EDs in the past.
he bullies certain friends more than others. as well as complaining about my friend’s hearing disability. he is pretty misogynistic as well.
he also constantly complains about having to be around my friends and me. he says that after we graduate he will never talk to us again but he “feels obligated to be friends with us throughout high school because he’s already been friends with us this long.”
also one thing about him is that he lacks any sympathy for anything. I’m not sure if he’s mentally unwell or not but he has talked about inflicting pain to animals. as well as saying that he doesn’t care about things like ICE or the holocaust (he is someone who is impacted by ICE too, might I mention).
I don’t want to go into super detail about some of these things. not only due to their disturbing nature but also because we would be here all day if I described everything.
what I’m looking for is a way to stop my “friendship” with him. he actively tries to interact with my friends and me. so, avoiding him is difficult.
need some genuine advice pls and thank yuu!!
