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How do i talk to people better

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I need to know how to be the one to create and to just hold conversations for longer. 

I'm not trying to speak to new people, just trying to talk to my friends kind of better.

I usually don't really have a lot to say, and I'm honestly not extremely close with any of my friends; Usually when I speak to them its super awkward and boring or just small talk.

Please help, I just need to know what 2 talk about :sweat:

I don’t know a huge amount about this, but in my experience, the best conversations happen when you don’t have to force them. I mean, sure, you have to get a dialogue going, and often you need to take the initiative, but some people just aren’t very open to conversation. It helps if you have a shared topic (ideally, an inexhaustible one, like a common interest) to talk about. It’s also great when something happens within the scope of that shared interest (like an event at school or a new episode of a series etc) that you can discuss. 

Personally, I think it’s best to just be direct and say exactly what’s on your mind

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