a rant about how people js LOVE to hate !!!11!!1!

apparently, my bf said that a while back at this party we went to, his friend brought up how there was these two random girls complaining about us kissing??

my bf was out and about with his friends and our mutual friend had brought up my boyfriend's clinginess to "joke around".

basically saying that he wasn't allowed to make jokes about our friend's PDA (really just jokes but their PDA was in a rather isolated group where our friends were just conversing with each other while they were doing PDA and stuff, no shade because it's not that big of a deal).

i totally understand because i personally dislike participating in excessive PDA or rather PDA in general but i felt that interaction specifically was unnecessary... i am very adamant to my boyfriend that i don't like PDA so we were deliberately limiting ourselves, especially at a party.

not to mention, it was a really big party! there was SEVERAL rooms where everyone was interacting in! the backyard had a bunch of group games, the kitchen was where everyone was eating together, people were upstairs talking smack and the living room had karaoke! 

we had spaced out kisses throughout the night and you just couldn't have walked into another room???? you were so supposedly bothered that you had to talk to other people about it? just walk into another room! it's not like we were making out, it was just an occasional peck. jeez...

but, that wasn't entirely the worst part about it. the friend said that they did not want to drop names because my bf "wouldn't have known them". if that was the case, why were they talking crap in the first place and why didn't you defend us?? and you're covering for them as well!!! for all i know, you were just agreeing with them.

anyways, that was a lil aggravating but in the end, they were random people and it hadn't effected us for months after that party so there is especially no reason to dwell now. people just can't mind their own business these days... staying in the same areas where you happen to see us occasionally kiss instead of walking away was YOUR decision!

if it really was THAT bad, we would've been happy to tone it down regardless if we felt it was normal! we care about the people around us and would hate to make people uncomfortable but to excessively dog on strangers like you personally hated us was unnecessary. just be open about your feelings and give people a chance to adjust than to spread all this hate! and defend your friends?? if you know us and how we are, you should've came to our aid and defend our names than to cover up :// you knew us better and you could've been the one to tell us but you just agreed with them behind our backs!

we'll be sure to be EXTRA mindful but only for the comfortability of others but not because some strangers were staying close enough to catch our 5 kisses through a 9 hour long party...